The Scriptures: Real Answers for Real Life
For each of the following common challenges, write the counsel from Philippians that you would use to resolve it:
1. People sometimes argue and complain over petty matters in church meetings or throughout the week (see Philippians 2:1-8, 14-15)
In chapter 2 of Philippians, Paul reminds us "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves" (v.3) and "Do all things without murmurings and disputing: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world." (v. 14-15) As soon as I read these verses, President Uchtdorf's famous two word sermon "Stop It!" from his awesome talk The Merciful Obtain Mercy from General Conference April 2012 came to mind. As brothers and sisters in Christ, there is no room for pettiness in our interactions with each other. None of us are perfect, we all fall short of our fullest potential and we all owe each other the benefit of the doubt.
2. Many youth feel that their parents' testimony is sufficient for them. Since they have good parents, they rely on them for all their spiritual strength (see Philippians 2:12-15 and Institute Student Manual "Work Out Your Own Salvation with Fear and Trembling" pp. 361-62)
Oh, there have been times when I hoped and wished with all my might that my struggling child could just cling to my own testimony until she reconnected with hers. While much good comes from a child knowing and feeling her parents' testimony, eventually they have to gain their own testimony for themselves. Testimonies are not gained effortlessly or automatically. As Paul says in Philippians 2:12, we must all "work out our own salvation with fear and trembling." I think one aspect of "fear and trembling" is humility. We have to humbly want to know for ourselves and be willing to ask for spiritual confirmation. It also requires work - maybe that is what the trembling is referring to - when we physically work out our muscles, sometimes they shake and tremble and feel weak. The same is true when we are exercising our spiritual muscles as. There's a quote in the Institute manual from David O. McKay that says "To work out one's salvation is not to sit idly by dreaming and yearning for God miraculously to thrust bounteous blessings into our laps. It is to perform daily, hourly, momentarily, if necessary, the immediate task or duty at hand and to continue happily in such performance as the years come and go..." (p. 361). No one can do it for us.
3. An investigator is considering joining the Church, but his family will no longer associate with him if he does (see Philippians 3:7-16; 4:13)
Well, I'm not sure I would choose to put it quite this way, but Paul says: ""Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ." Obviously, our families are not "dung", but the point Paul is trying to make is that nothing is more important than Jesus Christ and if we have to give up everything for His sake, so be it. In the end, we will know with a surety that it was the right decision. It comes down to faith. Do we believe Christ? If we do, the things we may sacrifice will be worth it. Personally, I believe that through Christ, miracles can happen, too. So even if the investigator's family stops associating with him after he joins the Church, that doesn't necessarily mean it will always be there. The Lord can work in them and soften their hearts. In my own experience, my family thought we were crazy to join the Church 23 years ago, but now, they see the fruits the Gospel has yielded in our lives and they see how happy we are. My dad, who really thought it was crazy tells me all the time what a wonderful job I did raising our kids, even though at one point when they were little he asked me if I "was ever going to use the brain God gave me?" because in his eyes, I was wasting it by being a stay at home mom. :-)
Well, I'm not sure I would choose to put it quite this way, but Paul says: ""Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ." Obviously, our families are not "dung", but the point Paul is trying to make is that nothing is more important than Jesus Christ and if we have to give up everything for His sake, so be it. In the end, we will know with a surety that it was the right decision. It comes down to faith. Do we believe Christ? If we do, the things we may sacrifice will be worth it. Personally, I believe that through Christ, miracles can happen, too. So even if the investigator's family stops associating with him after he joins the Church, that doesn't necessarily mean it will always be there. The Lord can work in them and soften their hearts. In my own experience, my family thought we were crazy to join the Church 23 years ago, but now, they see the fruits the Gospel has yielded in our lives and they see how happy we are. My dad, who really thought it was crazy tells me all the time what a wonderful job I did raising our kids, even though at one point when they were little he asked me if I "was ever going to use the brain God gave me?" because in his eyes, I was wasting it by being a stay at home mom. :-)
4. How is this writing assignment an example of the principle taught in 2 Nephi 32:3? "Angels speak by the power of the Holy Ghost; wherefore, they speak the words of Christ. Wherefore, I said unto you, feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do." This writing assignment has been an awesome opportunity to see "in real life" that answers to all of life's problems can be found in the Scriptures and the words of the Prophets. The key and the trick is to get to the point where the scriptures are the FIRST place we turn, with prayer, rather than our last resort when we have tried everything else our limited minds can think of.




